Even though I have only signed up to couchsurfing a couple of months ago I have made incredible experiences, travelled in luxury and met some of the most amazing, open-minded and interesting people ever, whether it was locals or fellow travellers.
What Couchsurfing Is All About
Couchsurfing is an online social community of people who like to meet locals while travelling and locals who like to meet travellers. It is a forum for low-budget travellers to find options to spend the night and learn about a place from a local person in exchange for offering time, skills, language practice or anything else one may have to offer. On the other hand, locals get a chance to show their city to foreigners, to learn new things and to make new friends all over the world in exchange for offering their couch.
How To Find A Host
There are two different ways to find a host. Firstly, you can search for hosts at your destination and write a request introducing yourself and your travel plans. Secondly, you can post a public trip outlining your travel plans and what you are looking for and wait for hosts to find you! Personally, I have mostly used the second option since the first option is more work and with the second option the hosts that respond to your request with an offer usually have time and space in their life at the current moment to also spend some time with you. At most destinations, unless they are extremely overrun by tourists and travellers at the time of your request, you will get many offers and can still pick and choose who you stay with.
What To Watch Out For
Whether you are a host or a surfer, there is not much security in terms of the true intentions of the people you invite into your home or at whose places you end up staying. References from other surfers help, but can also be easily faked. It is important to apply common sense, trust your guts and rather not stay with people who appear off. Communicate in advance and share your plans to see where the other person is at and if you have the same ideas of what this meeting is supposed to be all about. Give the address of your host to someone you trust and make sure someone knows where you are. Maybe most importantly, don’t be afraid to say ‘no’!
‘Free Accommodation’
Couchsurfing has a reputation of being a platform where one can find free accommodation. However, claiming that couchsurfing is free is like someone telling you all about Europe while never having left the states. Even though it may not directly cost the surfer any money, it has financial implications for the host: water and electricity charges, food, possibly gas if they take you around in their car and many other things they are willing to pay for. They also pay with their time for hosting you and showing you around their city.
The ‘Couchsurfing Isn’t What It Once Was’ Sayers
There are many hardcore, old-school couchsurfers out there, many having been signed up since day one, that have chosen to deactivate their profiles and leave the online community because they say it isn’t what it once was. Sure enough, couchsurfing has been turned from a non-profit into a start-up company with a new CEO who has different ideas and some of the many millions of new users are only looking for a cheap place to crash or someone to sleep with. But to those I have to say, there are still many couchsurfers with the original values at heart and even though you may come across the occasional black sheep, as with any community of a comparable size, and my experiences over the last two months certainly showed me that participating at this stage of the community’s development is well worth it.
My Experiences
Even though I have known about it for years I have only joined couchsurfing recently. I signed up earlier this year and started surfing in Russia. What I experienced went far beyond my expectations. Sure enough, not all meetings were amazing, I also surfed with a guy who spent maybe a whole 15min with me and went out partying with his friends the night I stayed with him without inviting me. But the majority of hosts went out of their way in a big time to give me a sense of their city, home and culture, took me out for traditional food or cooked for me and were very, very generous in every way imaginable. The trust I, a complete stranger not known beyond a few lines in an online profile, was met with is beyond compare. I was invited into homes, given keys, food, toiletries, rides and most importantly, they chose to spend their precious time with me.
I joined ‘couchsurfer meetings’ and met lots of locals, expats and travellers alike looking to meet new people and exchange language skills, travel tips and experiences. I was taken to the places the locals, eat, meet and drink and had many a private city tours, getting to know the places that are most important to locals, not necessarily those that are overrun by tourists. I met up with people, others took me into their homes and some I met again and again.
The more I use it the more incredible, amazing and real are the people I meet and the experiences I make through it. To be honest, I was a little held back by all the horror stories couchsurfing got media attention for but even if I wasn’t I would have never dreamed of meeting the most generous, hospitable, kind and open people in the world. Real people, I would have never met and real connections I would have never made if it weren’t for the platform.
Now it is like I not only have friends all over the world but also lots of homes. I was not only offered many a bed to sleep on for free, just because people want to meet me, but hosts, their families and friends also integrated me into their lives as if I had always been there and if I just belonged.